"Dear MeloD; A very close friend of mine was given the booklet and she and her
husband sat down with me at the table in my home and showed it to me. I felt overwhelmed
at first. Then, I felt like there was hope ! I stayed in the relationship for 6 to 8
months after seeing your paintings and I am now on the first steps of my new life. I
believe, had my friend not loved me enough to show that it wasn't a secret, my children
would not have a mother today. I want to say thank-you for all you are doing in my life
and in others. The Domestic Violence Series has given me hope. Thank-you."
(written by a victim of domestic violence, November 2002) Twenty two months have passed, since THE DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE SERIES was pulled from the grips of my easel & studio to be officially
presented to the public. That was October 10, 2001. I am happy to say that during these
past months, this visual diary of soul wrenching, images have been publicly displayed over
fifty-two times. Exhibits and Presentations have been held in cities and suburbs alike
throughout Florida. Additionally, exhibits have been held in New York, Nevada, Maryland,
Michigan & Kansas City. The book is being used throughout the US and even abroad in
Mexico, Pakistan, Canada and the Dominican Republic
I am humbled; simply stated, these paintings are beyond me. They
possess extreme power. Power to heal. Power to educate! Power to strike that one chord
persuading people to finally speak out! The secret is broken. Good, bad or indifferent,
the paintings get people talking about domestic violence! Now, nearing it's two year
anniversary, the fact is, the paintings have evolved and adapted. Products of my own
therapy, these paintings have become public tools used to create awareness, educate, evoke
dialog and raise funds for domestic violence organizations. Popularity; evidently growing,
our schedule continues to remain full! The Series never fails to evoke EMOTION. It happens
every time, with every exhibit! Many stories have been shared. Many SECRETS; told! Many
tears have been shed. Many hugs; exchanged! We've had tons of media support! Literally
hundreds of letters & e-mails have poured in from viewers commending the paintings and
supporting their blunt truths. We know, from these letters; we are touching peoples lives!
This is reason to continue. We are most grateful for this encouragement and support and
for the opportunity to be part of something which so profoundly helps others.
New and exiting things are happening for the Series! First, I must give
heart felt THANKS to those involved for the nominations to the FLORIDA GOVERNORS PEACE AT
HOME AWARD and FCADV's 2003 Excellence Award! I am humbly grateful and very proud of both
of these Awards; they mean the world to me!
**The Florida Department of Health and CDC have partnered up with MeloD
to create, co-write and publish a Sexual Violence Series and accompanying Educational
Book/ Poster Set. Much like The Domestic Violence Series and its Educational Book. We are
very excited about this endeavor which should be available later this fall to all Florida
Abuse Shelters, High Schools and Universities.
**An All New "EDITED VERSION" of The Domestic Violence Series
Educational Book and Workbook is currently in the works! When complete, this book will be
used to reach even more people. You will find this new format more conservative; enabling
it to be distributed to younger populations such as high school students. Like the
"original, un-edited" version, it will be a wonderful tool for all advocates,
counselors etc. to use while helping others recognize domestic and sexual violence. More
information on sexual abuse is being added to the content, paying particular attention to
this type of abuse within the confines of a relationship. The books will be larger, larger
pictures, larger copy, more pages. There will be a workbook in the back complete with the
Power & Control vs. Equality Wheels, several self quiz's, information for friends,
families and employers of victims and safety planing. This book will be printed in English
& Spanish. Upon request, it will be available to dv organizations, shelters, high
schools and colleges for mailing cost only.
** The State of Florida and CDC have booked Domestic Violence Series
Presentations and Exhibits for 12 of Florida's top Universities this fall, beginning with
Florida Gulf Coast University in Fort Myers on August 27, 2003. This is a great
opportunity to reach and educate college ages!
** "MeloD is now listed on the Florida On-Line Market Place (under
the heading of Domestic & Sexual Violence; Educators/Speakers/Workshop Presenters).
MeloD is now accepting key speaking engagements nationwide.
** A Documentary film on the Series will also soon be available on the
Series: how it began, what it means, how it has helped the cause, what it can do etc.
** This past June, DVS took part in the statewide training for FDOH
Brain & Spinal Cord Injury Program. The goal was to begin to more fully understand the
relationship between domestic violence and brain injury. Program administrators rarely
know that they are serving women who have been involved in dv situations because they are
rarely referred to the Central Registry or identified as having sustained traumatic brain
injury by shelter workers. Keith and I were pleased to bring this awareness to their
attendees.
** MeloD recently won The K-Mart/Pepsi Summer Sweepstakes Grand Prize
this past July and will be awarded a brand new Toyota Sequoia! This automobile was a God
send, as a stronger vehicle was desperately needed for traveling with the paintings.
Thank-you K-Mart & Pepsi!!!
It's quite amazing to watch this project grow. The Series has done
amazing things, yet we have only just begun.
Education and awareness is needed by all! I am grateful for all of the
encouraging words and support received. Who would have ever thought? Keith & I have
met many wonderful advocates and people working hard every day to end domestic violence!
It brings us joy to see so many who care about this devastating issue. (After all, if it
had not been for services offered by "a shelter", I am not sure that I would
have ever escaped.) We cannot endorse strongly enough the importance of domestic violence
shelters! We are thankful for these people who give so much of themselves to help those in
need! Because of their spirit, which we have seen, felt and experienced, we feel reassured
to know that one day, domestic violence will be (for the most part) a thing of the past!
May God speed!
Thank-you one & all! MeloD
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