Emergence

EMERGENCE
The most dangerous time for a victim is usually when she terminates the relationship
Undoubtably the hardest step to take.

It takes strength to leave an abusive relationship. However, walking away from abuse not only takes strength but gives strength. The abuser has been expending her energy day in and day out, week after week. Getting out from under the tyranny, criticism and rejection, she feels a tremendous burden lifted! She is emerging from a horrible past into a bright new future. She must proceed with caution though. Statistically, women who leave their abuser are at a 75% greater risk of being killed by their abuser. Yet, it is the only way to stop the enablement!
As you look closely at this painting, notice the images of ghost. It is as if the painful memories are being left behind in the darkness of despair. These images seem to be leaving her soul as she leaves the abusive relationship.